I love the Hozier song Take Me to Church, there is a line in this song that says “I’m a Pagan of the good time”. When I heard it, I thought, ME TOO! I am definitely a Pagan of the good time! Yep, I love a good party and celebration. I wanted to be a singer when I was younger and I swear my inner rock star regularly comes out! I will be the one that wants to stay out late and keep going at the end of the night and the one that dances too much at the party. Have you seen that video going around the internet of the girl in a red dress at a wedding dancing crazy? Well, that is totally me! The dichotomy I have with my rock star self is that, as you would know, I am also a professional Nutritionist! These two parts of me don’t always see eye to eye on life and what is best for me. My rock star meets my Green Smoothie Goddess and says BORING! My parents loved a good party or get together too, I was raised on them so I guess it is in my DNA.
So, I make it my life’s work to bring these two aspects of myself into some sort of alignment and balance, and then I try to teach that to my patients. What I learn, they learn. I am not the Nutritionist to see if you are looking for perfection. No, that doesn’t work for me and I prefer to be honest with people and real about who I am. I drink some wine, eat chocolate and sometimes even chips and pasta (wowsers, am I going to Nutritionist hell?)! But ALL the time I add extra vegetables, drink green smoothies and juices, fast and try to balance it all out. And if I notice my health is altering or symptoms are popping up that are out of the ordinary I address these through diet, supplementation and other healing modalities. Does my rock star self get in the way of me knowing how to heal your gut, enhance your immune system, help your anxiety, identify nutritional deficiencies or help with your fatigue? Hell no!
So if you are looking for a way to improve your health and wellness from someone who gets the pull to enjoy life! I’m for you! I focus on progress not perfection.
After the Easter weekend I totally need to rein things in as it got a little too crazy up in here! So I am fasting and detoxing and shaming my rock star self and feeling like I filled my cup and completely happy at the same time! Why over joyed with happiness? Because I had fun with my family and that is the best thing for me! What I have realised so far in my quest for balance and whole hearted living is if I don’t let my party self out to play she will roar out with a vengeance. And that’s when shit gets a little crazy. For me, this looks like too much mundane living, doing too much mothering and wifing and not enough for me and not having enough fun! If I include having fun as a priority, like dancing, going to the beach, going out to dinner with friends & being a little crazy in my every day, I can see things stay within balance. We all need to be real and human however that looks for us, some people are the masters of balance and others are learning and in the end it’s all fucking good!
Love Cassandra x
PS. Go on and dance like no one is watching and see how good it really feels! Increase your endorphins and gain more energy from fun and laughter.
Green – spinach, lettuce, kale, watercress, broccoli, rocket, zucchini, beans, kiwi fruit, avocado, nori seaweed, grapes, green capsicum.
Red and Pink – watermelon, strawberries, tomato, pomegranate, red capsicum, raspberries, chilies, red apples.
Yellow and Orange – carrots, yellow capsicum, sweet potato, oranges, mango, yellow nectarines
Blue and Purple – blueberries, blackberries, beetroot, purple carrots, purple potato, red cabbage, purple grapes, fresh figs, kidney beans, red rice.
Black – black rice, black beans
White – garlic, onion, potato, mushrooms, white beans
I have just come back from 12 days in New Zealand and I am lucky enough to be going away again in 2 weeks to Bali for another mini break. I don’t normally jet set this much but we are squeezing in an extra trip before my littlest turns 2 and we have to start paying full fare! So whilst I was in New Zealand I over indulged as I do on holidays, and I know I will do the same in Bali. I must say I love it! I love just chilling out with everything, my food included. I still exercise and move my body and I am conscious of what I am eating but I certainly relax with everything and consume a little too much wine, if I am honest :).
As I only have a week and a bit before I leave again I want to give my body a boost and pump it full of as many nutrients as I can over this next week. I want to give it a break from certain foods and over digesting and give it some extra love and fuel. I am calling this my Nourishment Week, I normally eat 80:20 sometimes 90:10 depending on what I am working on. And I don’t believe we need to be perfect all the time, however when I have overindulged I always try to give back to my body a little. Some people may call this a detox but I prefer to use the word Nourishment so it doesn’t feel like I am depriving myself of anything, I am doing the opposite, I am filling up my reserves.
Nourishment Week is about pumping up the nutrients and really giving your body some extra nutrition to help it function at its best! It will kick off Monday and end Sunday and my hope is that you get some inspiration and ideas of meals and “add in’s” that you can KEEP in your diet even when you stop Nourishment Week. If it is too much for you to do the whole week, no worries, maybe you will just follow a couple of the meals or keep the information for a later date. It is flexible and you work with what you can. You may also decide that you can do Nourishment week for longer than a week, maybe 2 or 3 and that is completely safe too.
For this one week (I would normally do between 1 & 4 weeks but I only have time for 1) I am not 80:20 I am 100%. I like to pump up the nutrients whenever I can but this week I am paying particularly strict attention to each meal to g
et the most out of it and adding in whatever I can to improve the nutrition. I am also removing a few things that I know my body could do with a break from. You may find you just get a couple of hints and tips out of it that you can then implement into your normal diet everyday to pump up the nutrients all the time and that would be amazing as we
Please Note/ The below meal plan is a suggested only for healthy individuals, it is not recommended for pregnant or lactating women, children or people in altered health states.
Hints & Tips
Recipes and Shopping List coming! x
I am the biggest fan of Dr Brene’ Brown, her books and work are my ethos and my long term dream is to qualify as a coach in her work (I am working on it!). Dr Brown is a researcher of shame and vulnerability and she has written 3 books (google her if you want more information). One of her biggest messages to the world is that vulnerability is courageous and leads us to connection. So in the spirit of vulnerability and courage I will share a story with you;
I occasionally get floored by a feeling of immense vulnerability, it may be similar to anxiety but I don’t fully know as I have never had an anxiety attack as such so don’t like to label it as that. It feels like butterflies in my stomach and that I’m walking around with my heart on the outside of my body and people could poke it. When this feeling happens I feel unsafe and like a child in an adult’s body.
I probably have always had this feeling on and off my whole life, coming and going in various capacities. It rears up particularly when I am living outside of my comfort zone and putting myself out there in the world more often, (Dr Brown refers to it as “living in the arena”) this is mostly with my work. Since I have made the decision to get back on the horse and ride on into the arena of life and start living my dreams professionally this feeling has been popping up more often. As it is an unsafe kind of feeling I know it also started to appear more often after both my parents passed away as they were my safety net in the world. When I used to fall into this feeling of being a child and vulnerable I could still be parented by my parents, so since they have left this earth I have had to learn to address this myself. If there was any gift in both my parents passing away (it’s very hard to find a gift in both your parents passing away from cancer) it was that I had to learn to have my own back and be my own parent, I could no longer run to the familiar safety of them and in this I learnt a strength I would not have otherwise known, I would have preferred to learn that lesson in another way but that’s not how my life turned out.
Anyway, when this feeling pops up I know exercise helps, ensuring I am taking my supplements & eating healthy food helps (as there is always a biochemical link) and leaning into my family and very close friends helps, it also helps to be very careful about who I expose myself to when I am feeling like this. However, recently when this familiar vulnerability came up and seeming to last a few days I decided to surrendered to it, I had a ‘me day’ and lay on the couch. I tuned out of the world to tune into myself! I just sat with the feeling and accepted that I need to learn how to manage this so I can continue to live in the arena. After a few hours it had shifted and by the next day I was ready to face the world again. I had to feel the feeling; I had to dive into it, allow it and let it have a voice so I could feel functional again and move forward. That is very new for me and very rare in our society to sit and just be without trying to change it.
In our fast paced world we are being steered away from feeling our feelings, encouraged to strategize them out, rise above them and not to show them in our Facebook perfect lives. Where does connection lie in that? Where connection lye with ourselves in that world and if we cannot connect with ourselves it can be hard to connect properly with others. What we resist persists, so I am encouraging people to feel their feelings, all of them, even when it’s unpleasant. They will change and you will change and if you don’t they will only get stuffed on down waiting to rear up at a later date in a more dramatic way.
I know it won’t be the last time I feel this feeling of immense vulnerability/anxiety but next time I will know that perhaps I need to surrender and take some time out from the world and recharge. My hope is that we can all live “in The Arena” and all learn to feel what we need to feel and learn what we need to learn.
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“What’s the point of working as hard as you do to grow your business if you can’t reap the benefits of a quality lifestyle in the future”. It’s important to prioritise & care for yourself so you have enough energy and vitality to enjoy life.
A lot of minor health complaints can be alleviated from simply drinking more water. Majority of the population are dehydrated. Coffee and Tea is not included- caffeine actually dehydrates.
Eat as close to nature as possible and eating more fruit and vegetables will ensure you are receiving adequate amounts of antioxidants, vitamins and minerals as well as the innate life force within these foods. Without these essential nutrients the body ages & breaks down faster!
Poor posture puts stress on the body & nervous system & increases the risk of degenerative arthritis & poor health. Make the conscious choice to move more, take the stairs & get up out of your chair more throughout the day.
When we are grateful or giving thanks for things in our life, no matter how small, we are in a happier/ more positive frame of mind. It is amazing how much more motivated and full of energy we can be when we are in this state of mind. Say thank you for as many things as you can think of every day & observe your improved emotional wellbeing!